Soulmate ,is it a fiction?Or only the one we watch in films.People have different opinions of getting married. But as a matter i see is gender oriented mainly.Girls tends to move away from marriage because they want to enjoy their life and live freely.Boys on the other hand, if settled and less commitments, may wanna get married early.But this thing is rather psychological than logical.
Love exist,but the concept of Soulmate is still a question.Some people don't believe in love because they just don't love themselves enough,or they have bigger priorities and commonly say-Look I don't have time for this thing,because I have commitments to my family.Love yourselves first.Sometimes good things fall apart , so that better things may fall together. Prioritize it.You should just give it a chance,even though it failed you many times.
We are told not to smoke or take drugs or not to take a particular dish coz you might be allergic,would not we try if we have another note or if marijuana is legal and we have not been brainwashed by parents about taking it.Boys are given an option to wait and girls an option to marry soon.So by Newtons law ,it happens equal and opposite.Things happen in opposite way.If we are told as a child not to touch the red button,we touch it because we have not experienced it-Not knowing that that is a button for the bomb.Similarity is the condition of the marriage.There is no off switch.You are bound to it once done.Be sure you do it right and enjoy before going through that phase.
I personally advice to enjoy your life.BE OUT THERE.Do things that make you happy and it's ok to be happy.Switch Off your brain and make decisions with your heart once a while.Learn to influence others through your life.Do differently and make a difference.
Enjoy your life:
- SMOKE & DRINKS
- TRAVEL TO AN UNKNOWN PLACE ALONE
- BE AN ALPHA PERSON
- VISIT A FIFA MATCH
- BUILT A HOME FOR THE POOR
- PLANT 100 TREE
- PARTY
- MAKE A CHILD HAPPY BY BUYING HIM WHAT HE WANT
- MEET YOUR ROLE MODEL
- GO TO OLYMPIC GAME
- MAKE ADVENTURES-PARAGLIDING,SKYDIVING,HOT AIR BALOON
- LEARN TO COOK A SIGNATURE DISH
- MAKE A BUCKET LIST
But Also
- INVEST IN YOURSELF
- HAVE A STABLE EXPERIENCED JOB
- SAVE MONEY
- RESEARCH YOUR FAMILY TREE
Soulmate ,is it a fiction?Or only the one we watch in films?I probably think so.Splitsvilla is an MTV show,where celebs/contestants boys and girls meet and make a connection,where many even fell love on the set.But none ever had succeeded.Because it just shifts.In season 10 of splitsvilla,they even had an ideal match-Many contestants were researched and put to rest and found out about their matches.Many passed,but still even after finding the matches by a series of psychological behaviors and algorithm,and applying it, they have not settled or are still together for even 1 year.The only exception is Prince Narula &Yuvika and Pearly Maaney&Sreenish who found true love.Both are engaged presently.
Soulmate is just a fiction and seen only in movies like serentipity.I believe in love.But who makes it true?Time-never!!
True love do not have the same understandings,they just need to know the understand of the differences.True love don't have a need to impress,no need for romance.I am not saying that it is not required,But its value is negligible.There won't be any sensations in the stomach,nor any release of chemical reactions in the brain.You are satisfied the way you are with her.You are her problem and she is yours.There is no she,just we.If you are hiding your emotions and he/she can still see your pain..That is true love.
It can be found in your mom.And she is the soulmate,and you infact are spending your whole life with her.That's why a girl see a Dad in a guy and boy see a Mom.I believe in love,but can that be changed?Today you find her attractive and tomorrow you can find another 'her'attractive coz human mind change.You don't find her attractive and you still don't care and infact you find the other one too hot and you still don't care because that is not important because your hunger is already gone.You are happy just the way things are.You can stay with that person for all eternity,that's true love.Sensation comes and go-And the left over emotion is still strong that's true love.There is no two,just one.What's true love is: even if they don't wanna see and are separated,they still won't be.In marriage i mentioned about the off switch,in true love too the switch never goes off.Even if they want ,they still can't.Because that's what true love is.
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